Reader!!!

The clock is ticking on this incredible offer.​

I just couldn't resist making an offer today because I've been carefully taught by my mother to LOVE a screamin’ deal.

This offer is especially for you if:

💘You are a struggling, overworked mama with a deep love for learning and self improvement, who has found through all the stress, strain and bum-wiping that your marriage has become empty and clouded with resentment.

Or:

💘 You are fighting with your husband, unhappy, but worried for your kids, not ready for divorce and aching for some peace.

Or:

💘 You’ve simply noticed that something seems to be missing- Some spark of joy that lit you two up in the early days seems to have gone flat, and you’re feeling the creep of emptiness.

About 13 years ago I had an idea. I realized that I’d been in a marriage (which I had practically run screaming from in the beginning) for nearly a decade, but that I had never been happier. If that was to be my life, I was perfectly content. The magic mixture of spirituality, evidence based psychoeducation, self care and creative relationship strategizing I had hit upon had not only had a wonderful impact, but I absolutely loved the process and the learning and wanted to share it with others. I had read dozens of profound books, applied many impactful psychological and spiritual practices, and even acquired a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and begun counseling couples. I started work on a book called Be the Change in Your Marriage. I wanted it to be a workbook full of soul searching journaling prompts, powerful quotes, mindfulness exercises, inspiration and proven relationship knowledge, that would effect a transformation from pain to peace. It would help moms who have good guys make their marriages amazing and for the few whose marriages needed to end (as mine eventually did) they could do so with clarity and peace, fully prepared for love and knowing in their hearts they’d done everything possible. Fast forward through the paradoxical end of the marriage I’d made peace with, meeting my forever, whom I was spectacularly prepared to build a blissful life with, raising children and finally my youngest starting preschool, countless technological advances… and I recently reminded myself that I had the beginnings of a course in my mind and heart for Moms who had struggled as I had.

It is happening.

I’m offering the opportunity, this weekend only, until 11:59 pm PST on Monday November 29th, to get in on the ground floor. ​

Here’s what you’ll get when the course launches early 2022:

Be the Change in Your Marriage Signature Course

Six Transformative Weeks to Reclaim All the Sweetness You’ve Lost & More

Six weeks of incredibly impactful guidance with 4-5 lessons and at least one live session each week with group coaching and Q & A. You will have the opportunity to go through the course with a cohort of supportive women who can empathize with your circumstances.

WEEK 1: HEAL

By the end of this week you will have:

💘 Had a good cry and done some much needed processing

💘Gotten a sense of what core issues are at the heart of your pain.

💘Learned to nurture yourself, reach for hope, create a place of safety within and become your own “trusty sidekick” 🤓.

💘Picked up a toolkit full of strategies to return yourself to serenity every time you feel the intense emotions get rolling, including the four step F L E X intervention.

WEEK 2: AWAKEN ATTENTION

This is absolutely vital for maintaining healthy relationships with yourself and your man.

By the end of this week you will have:

💘Begun a unique and elegantly centering daily practice complete with customized audio that grows as you do.

💘 Awakened a new kind of attention most nurturing for relationships and gone deep into further thought work to prepare you for the relationship work to come.

💘Learned evidence based knowledge of conditions you can create for the greatest relationship success.

💘 Begun to explore the universal problem (no one is exempt!) of not knowing you have a problem.

WEEK 3: UNDERSTAND

By the end of this week you will have:

💘Gained an understanding of the deeper reasons behind your cycle of conflict (your “reel”).

💘Found the serenity, acceptance and self-care to safely acknowledge your part in it.

💘Made a plan to adjust your steps to flip your reel on a positive spin.

💘Mapped out your sacred and intentional boundary lines and your plan for enforcing them.

WEEK 4: STRATEGIZE

By the end of this week you’ll have:

💘Learned several useful problem solving alternatives to “talking things out”.

💘Learned a technique that almost always stops conflict in its tracks.

💘Learned my “4 Pillars of Effective Communication” and their handy acronym.

💘Begun the practice of sacred and loving non-violent boundary setting as well as creative ways for making sure your needs are met.

WEEK 5: APPROACH

By the end of this week you will have:

💘Invited some precious sharing out of a rich selection of conversation prompts.

💘Embraced the practice of profuse appreciation and begun to sense its healing.

💘Created your own list of “love hacks” which you’ll enjoy sprinkling throughout the week.

💘Explored any barriers to sexual intimacy that have been built, and made a plan to work through them.

WEEK 6: LOVE

By the end of this week you will have:

💘Thoroughly considered your options about the future of your marriage after learning what conditions may be unsustainable.

💘Acted on your intentions to show your spouse wholehearted love while nurturing your personal safety.

💘Planned a meaningful evening together (or in a few select cases, by yourself) in which love, hope and goodwill can be renewed and celebrated.

What do you think so far?

This course has not yet been created, but I can share the following testimonials about my work and content:

“I supervised Summer in her healing work counseling individuals and couples. I have every confidence that she will help women navigate a troubled marriage and come out stronger and healthier.”

Dr. Jerry Harris, LMFT

AAMFT Clinical Fellow and Approved Supervisor

Tammy wrote: “Oh my gosh! I loved it. You put that so well without making a woman feel ‘less than’.”

Rachel wrote: “Your meditation was very relaxing but inspiring. I love ending on light and hope. It was a great way to start my day. Great job on the podcast! You have some hilariously awesome metaphors. I giggle in every episode. Witty and interesting, important and relatable. Definitely can’t wait for the next episode!!!!. SO good!!!! You’re doing amazing work that I know will bless so many lives!!!!”

Jeannie wrote:

“Oh I loved Summer’s lessons. She is SO loving and real!”

Stacie said (following a live workshop): “That was awesome! I loved how genuine and real your talk is. You did great. Loved it. LOVED IT!”

If you haven’t checked out my Podcast, please do so to find out if you like my vibe. And please understand that the course will go WAAYYY deeper and in a step by step, systematic way that carefully supports your growth.

This is a Black Friday Flash Sale, as well as a founding member’s presale. As a founding member you’ll have lifetime access to the full six week life changing course, including any updates, at an astonishing🥳 discount of 75% off: a one time payment of $57. I can confidently say that the price will NEVER be this low again. The course will be first launched at a price of $227, and repeatedly launched and refined as feedback is received and you will have access to every new and improved version.

If you want in on this last chance offer, click here to make your payment and be welcomed aboard. I'm so excited to have you join me.

Sending so much love,

Summer Cox